What you can learn from walking with a cop

Kristin Bedford 
For Randolph Hub

ASHEBORO — Sometimes the best conversations happen while walking side by side. That was my experience when I participated in the Randolph County Sheriff’s Department’s “Walk with a Cop” community outreach program on July 8. What began as a simple walk turned into a lesson about the community and people who have dedicated their careers to protecting it.

“Events like these give us the opportunity to connect with our community, answer questions, and build relationships one step at a time,” Randolph County Sheriff Greg Seabolt wrote in a Facebook post following the event.

The walking track itself wasn’t particularly long. In fact, we circled the loop several times during the event. By the time we finished, my fitness tracker had recorded 2.18 miles. More importantly, those miles were filled with thoughtful conversation, genuine questions, and a level of personal interaction that simply isn’t possible during a routine traffic stop or emergency call.

I was paired with Sgt. Bryan Tysinger, and the relaxed pace gave us plenty of time for one-on-one conversation. Without the distractions of flashing lights, radios, or urgent situations, we were able to talk as neighbors rather than simply as citizen and law enforcement officer. That distinction matters. Community policing isn’t just about responding to calls for service — it’s about building relationships before problems arise.

Our conversation covered an impressive range of topics. We traded recommendations for favorite local restaurants and discussed the places that make Randolph County unique. Those lighthearted moments reminded me that the men and women who wear a badge enjoy many of the same things the rest of us do. They eat at the same restaurants, shop at the same stores, and raise their families in the same neighborhoods. They aren’t outsiders; they’re members of the community with a job that asks them to shoulder extraordinary responsibility.

As our walk continued, we shifted to more serious subjects. I shared my concerns about panhandling in our area and asked questions about how law enforcement approaches the issue. Sgt. Tysinger explained the complexities involved. Many situations involve mental health challenges, addiction, homelessness or other underlying issues that cannot be solved through arrests alone. While law enforcement has an important role in maintaining public safety and enforcing the law, many of society’s most difficult problems require close collaboration with social service agencies, nonprofit organizations and community leaders. Hearing that perspective gave me a greater appreciation for the challenges deputies face every day.

One of the most valuable parts of our conversation was gaining a clearer understanding of the distinct roles of the Sheriff’s Office and our local police departments. Like many residents, I knew there was a difference, but I had never fully understood the responsibilities each agency carries. The walk provided an opportunity to ask questions, learn how public safety is organized and gain a deeper appreciation for the multiple agencies that work together in serving our community.

Perhaps the greatest takeaway from the morning wasn’t any single fact I learned, but the reminder that trust grows through conversation. It’s easy to form opinions based on headlines, social media posts or brief encounters during stressful situations. Programs like “Walk with a Cop” create an entirely different environment. They allow residents to ask honest questions, voice concerns respectfully and hear directly from the people behind the badge.

Events like this also remind our law enforcement officers that community members want to be engaged. Many of us aren’t looking for confrontation—we’re looking for understanding. We want safe neighborhoods, thriving businesse, and opportunities for our families to enjoy our community. Those goals are shared by the deputies and officers who patrol our streets. 

Building stronger communities can start with something as simple as putting on a comfortable pair of walking shoes and spending an hour talking with someone you might not otherwise meet. 

“Walk With a Cop” is a monthly event posted on the Randolph County Sheriff’s Department Facebook page. All fitness levels are invited to attend and officers allow you to set the pace. Whether you’re a runner, fast walker or casual walker like me, just show up, start walking and start talking. You may be surprised by how much you learn about our community and the people committed to keeping it safe.

Next Walk With a Cop event is set for Tuesday, Sept. 29

ASHEBORO — The Randolph County Sheriff’s Office, in partnership with Randolph County Wellness, invites members of the community to participate in the next Walk With a Cop on Tuesday, Sept. 29, 2026, at noon at the Randolph County Government Office Building, 725 McDowell Road.

The event provides an informal opportunity for community members to connect with deputies while enjoying a walk around the newly constructed concrete walking path surrounding the Government Office Building. Participants are encouraged to ask questions, learn more about the Sheriff’s Office or simply enjoy a mid-day walk alongside local law enforcement.

“There are no speeches and no formal agenda,” Sheriff Greg Seabolt says. “It’s simply an opportunity to walk together, talk, and continue building relationships with the people we are proud to serve.”

Participants should meet at the patio area located on the back side of the building. The walk will take place on the new concrete walking path around the Government Office Building. Walk a few minutes or put in some miles.  It is up to you. Residents of all ages are welcome. There’s no cost to walk.